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Writing this from my hospital bed — got T-boned by a truck that blew a red light

Still can't really believe this is my life right now. Three days ago I was driving home from my shift at work, totally normal Tuesday, and a pickup truck just blew through a red light at a busy intersection and slammed into the driver's side of my car. I was maybe going 25 mph. He had to have been going at least 50.

The impact pushed my whole car sideways into a utility pole. My door was basically caved in against me. Airbags went off — honestly think they saved my life.

I'm writing this from a hospital room where I've been since it happened. Ended up with a fractured pelvis, a lacerated liver they had to do an emergency procedure on, and some broken fingers on my left hand (I think I was gripping the wheel). The pain is no joke.

The other driver stayed at the scene, at least. Police came, report was filed, and his insurance info was exchanged. From what witnesses told cops, he apparently ran the light — so I'm hoping fault isn't going to be some big battle.

Here's what I don't know:

  • My car is almost certainly totaled. How does that process even work when you're stuck in a hospital?
  • Do I need a lawyer? I've never dealt with anything like this.
  • His insurance has already reached out to me. Should I even talk to them right now?
  • I have my own insurance too — do I use both?

I feel overwhelmed and I'm on pain meds so my brain isn't exactly firing on all cylinders. Any advice from people who've been through something like this would mean a lot right now. Thank you.

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  • 19
    clever-badger-346

    Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. I was in a serious T-bone a couple years back and I remember feeling that exact same overwhelmed/foggy combo from the hospital bed. One thing I wish someone had told me right away: don't give a recorded statement to the other driver's insurance yet. They called me too, super friendly, and I almost just started talking. My friend stopped me and I'm so glad she did. You're injured, medicated, and not in any shape to be choosing your words carefully. That call can wait.

  • 17
    gentle-finch-384

    The moment that other insurance company reaches out sounding all sympathetic and helpful — that's a tactic. They are not on your side. Full stop. They want a quick, cheap settlement before you even know the full extent of your injuries. A fractured pelvis and liver laceration are serious long-term injuries. You have no idea yet what your recovery looks like, what PT will cost, whether you'll miss weeks or months of work. Please don't sign or agree to anything until you at least talk to someone who knows what your case is worth.

    • 1
      curious-neighbor227

      That lines up with what my adjuster told me too.

  • 19
    calm-elk-964

    Speaking as someone who works in healthcare — please focus on your recovery first and let the legal/insurance stuff sit for a few days if you can. A liver lac and pelvic fracture are not minor. Make sure your care team is documenting everything, including your pain levels, mobility limitations, any procedures performed, and follow-up care you'll need. All of that documentation becomes incredibly important later. Ask a family member or friend to keep a notebook or phone note tracking what doctors are telling you each day — your memory may be fuzzy with the pain meds.

    • 0
      gentle-wanderer995

      Curious whether you did this on your own or had help with it.

  • 15
    warm-swan-415

    A few practical things that might help right now:

    1. Get a copy of the police report as soon as it's available — you or a family member can usually request it online or by calling the reporting department. 2. Don't settle your vehicle claim before your personal injury claim. Some insurers try to rush the car payout and it feels like closure, but the two are separate. 3. Your own insurance (especially if you have MedPay or PIP coverage) can help with immediate medical bills regardless of fault — worth a call to your own insurer to ask what you have. 4. Most personal injury attorneys do free consultations and work on contingency, so there's no upfront cost to at least talk to one.

    You've got time. Don't let anyone pressure you.

    • 6
      gentle-optimist686

      Did you have to escalate, or did they come around after the first ask?

  • 16
    quick-raven-153

    Not legal advice, but — given what you're describing (clear red-light violation, serious injuries, hospitalization, potential long-term impact), this is exactly the situation where having a personal injury attorney on your side makes a real difference. Not because you have to fight, but because they deal with the insurance company so you don't have to while you heal. Most will handle everything on contingency. At minimum, a free consult costs you nothing and gives you a clearer picture. Just my two cents.

  • 9
    keen-otter-409

    I used to work on the insurance side and I'll be honest with you: when a claimant calls us from the hospital without representation, we know we have an opportunity to close things out cheap. It's not malicious exactly, it's just how the system works. The sooner you settle, the less we pay. Your injuries sound serious enough that your long-term costs — rehab, lost wages, potential complications — could be significant. An adjuster calling you three days post-accident is fishing. You are under zero obligation to respond quickly.

    • 9
      tired-neighbor782

      Solid advice. Getting it in writing is the part most people skip.

  • 18
    warm-badger-070

    Please just rest and heal right now. 💙 Is there someone who can be with you at the hospital — a family member or close friend who can help field some of this stuff while you recover? You shouldn't be trying to navigate insurance calls alone while you're on pain meds after emergency procedures. None of this paperwork is so urgent it can't wait a few days.

  • 11
    clever-marten-886

    Short version: Don't talk to the other insurance. Get the police report. Ask your own insurance what coverage you have active right now. And seriously consider getting a PI attorney involved — not because you're greedy, because you're going to need someone in your corner who does this every day. You focus on not dying, let someone else fight the paperwork war.