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Semi clipped me on the highway — what do I do now? Feeling totally lost

So this happened four days ago and I'm still kind of in shock trying to figure out what I'm supposed to do next.

I was merging onto the interstate when an 18-wheeler in the right lane just... drifted into me. Didn't brake, didn't honk — just came over like I wasn't there. My passenger side got crushed and I ended up spinning into the median barrier. Airbags went off. My neck and shoulder have been killing me ever since, and the ER told me to follow up with my own doctor for what might be a soft tissue situation.

Here's where I'm already feeling like I messed up:

  • I said something like "are you okay?" and "I'm sorry this happened" at the scene — now I'm paranoid that counts against me
  • I didn't get the trucking company's DOT number or any info beyond the driver's name
  • The police came but I haven't actually gotten the report yet — do I need to specifically request that?

The trucker's carrier has already called me twice and wants a recorded statement. I haven't called back yet because something felt off about how fast they reached out.

I've never dealt with anything like this before. My car is probably totaled and I genuinely don't know if I can afford to miss more work. Is there some order I'm supposed to do all this in? Does the size of the truck actually change how complicated the claim gets? Any advice from people who've been through this would really help right now.

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  • 21
    humble-wren-831

    Please don't brush off the neck and shoulder stuff. Soft tissue injuries from high-impact crashes — especially when airbags deploy — can feel manageable the first few days because your body is still flooded with adrenaline and inflammation hasn't fully set in. Follow up with your doctor soon and be really specific about every symptom, even minor ones. That documentation matters medically AND if you end up in any kind of claim process.

  • 19
    patient-seal-884

    Those early calls from the trucking carrier's insurance are not them trying to help you. They're trying to lock in your story before you know the full extent of your injuries or have anyone in your corner. "We just want to get this sorted quickly for you" is their script. Quick for them means cheap for them. Don't give a recorded statement to anyone on their side — period.

    • 0
      gentle-parent320

      That lines up with what my adjuster told me too.

  • 17
    wise-otter-132

    I used to work on the commercial carrier side and I'll be straight with you: when a claim comes in involving one of our trucks, the first call to the claimant is absolutely a strategy move. We were trained to make contact fast, sound sympathetic, and get a recorded statement while the person is still rattled and hasn't spoken to an attorney. You not calling back is the right instinct. Trust that feeling.

  • 17
    clever-swan-363

    Did the police report you as the merging vehicle? Depending on how that's written up, liability could get complicated regardless of what the truck did. I'm not saying it's your fault — just that the merge situation means you should know exactly what the officer documented before you assume how this is going to play out.

    • 0
      hopeful-parent640

      Appreciate the detailed write-up. Saving this for later.

  • 15
    warm-bison-513

    A few practical things you can do right now:

    1. Request the police report — most departments let you do it online or by phone, sometimes for a small fee. Get it as soon as it's available, usually 5–10 business days after the crash. 2. Write down everything you remember while it's fresh — weather, lane positions, what you saw the truck do, anything the driver said. 3. The DOT number situation might be recoverable — it should appear on the police report, or you can sometimes find it through state motor carrier databases if you have the trucking company name.

    None of this is legal advice, just stuff that tends to matter later.

    • 4
      calm-survivor299

      Seconding this. The same approach worked for me last year.

  • 14
    spry-swift-353

    Oh man, the quick callback from the carrier is such a red flag — same thing happened to me after a truck merge accident two years ago. They called within like 36 hours. I almost gave the statement because I felt like I had to. Don't. That recorded call is for THEM, not for you. I learned that the hard way and spent months untangling stuff I said that sounded innocent but wasn't.

    • 1
      curious-driver605

      Same boat here. Did anyone mention a deadline to watch out for?

  • 8
    curious-crane-392

    Three things: don't give the recorded statement, get the police report, see your doctor again before you feel like you "need" to. Everything else can be figured out but those three will make or break how the next few months go.

    • 5
      honest-rider674

      Same boat here. Did anyone mention a deadline to watch out for?

  • 7
    plain-vole-549

    Not legal advice, but trucking cases genuinely are a different animal than regular car accidents. There are federal regulations governing driver hours, vehicle maintenance logs, and cargo weight — all of which can become relevant. Evidence like the truck's onboard data recorder (most modern semis have them) can be critical, and it can be lost or overwritten quickly. That's one reason timing matters in these cases. Worth at least a consultation before you talk to anyone from their side. Most PI attorneys do free consults.

    • 1
      kind-walker102

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

  • 6
    clever-stoat-361

    I just want to say — you saying "I'm sorry this happened" at the scene is NOT an admission of fault. You were being a decent human being in a terrifying moment. Don't beat yourself up over that. Focus on feeling better and getting the info you need. You've got people rooting for you.

    • 4
      honest-optimist173

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?