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Rear-ended at a red light, car is acting possessed, and I still owe money on it 😩

So this happened about two weeks ago and I'm still trying to wrap my head around everything.

I was stopped at a red light on my way home from work when an older gentleman plowed into the back of me. Didn't even slow down from what I could tell — just full-on rear-ended me. He was super apologetic, said he "didn't see the light change" which honestly made me more nervous, not less.

Here's my situation: I still owe roughly six grand on this car. I bought it after my mom passed because it was her favorite color and it honestly just made me feel close to her still. So there's sentimental weight on top of everything practical.

Now the car is doing things I've never seen before:

  • Transmission feels like it's hesitating between gears
  • Some kind of lane-assist warning keeps randomly flashing even when I'm parked
  • There's a new vibration in the steering wheel above 45 mph
  • The trunk won't latch properly — I have to bungee it shut

I'm scared the insurance is going to call it a total loss and cut me a check that doesn't even cover what I owe, let alone replace it with something comparable.

My back has also been stiff and sore since the accident. I went to urgent care once but haven't done anything further yet.

His insurer has already called me twice "just to get my statement." I haven't talked to them yet.

Has anyone been in a similar boat — car you cared about, still had a loan on it, weird electrical/mechanical stuff showing up after the fact? What did you do? How did it turn out?

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    calm-marmot-200

    Do NOT give that recorded statement. I cannot stress this enough. The other driver's insurance company is not your friend — their adjuster's entire job is to minimize what they pay out. Once you give a recorded statement, anything you say can be used to lowball you or shift partial blame onto you. Talk to someone in your corner first.

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      thankful-offramp709

      This thread is gold. Thanks everyone.

  • 20
    daring-elk-577

    Please don't ignore the back pain. I know it's easy to get tunnel vision on the car stuff, but soft tissue injuries from rear-end collisions are sneaky — they can feel like stiffness at first and turn into something much more serious weeks later. Urgent care is fine for a first step but honestly you should follow up with your own doctor and get everything documented. Your medical records matter more than people realize when it comes to getting fairly compensated.

  • 19
    cool-stoat-730

    Quick question — did you get a police report filed? And was the other driver cited for anything? That stuff matters a lot for how clean-cut the liability question actually is. I'm not doubting you, just want to make sure you have documentation locked down before you start assuming everything will go smoothly.

    • 0
      calm-wanderer926

      Wish I had seen this a month ago — would have saved me a lot of stress.

  • 16
    clear-swan-353

    A few practical things: (1) Keep a running log of every symptom, every weird thing the car does, every call from the insurance company — dates, times, names, what was said. (2) Get your car to a shop for a full diagnostic even if it's drivable. You want a written record of every issue tied to the accident. (3) If there's a gap between what insurance pays and what you owe on your loan, look into whether you have GAP coverage — it's worth checking your original financing paperwork.

  • 12
    wise-bison-268

    I'm so sorry about your mom and the connection you had to that car. That layer on top of all the stressful practical stuff just makes this so much harder. Please take care of yourself through this — the car stuff will eventually get sorted, but don't run yourself into the ground over it.

    • 16
      keen-owl-176

      Three things: stop driving the car until a shop looks at it (you don't want to make the damage worse and have them argue it happened after the accident), don't sign any release or accept any settlement without understanding exactly what you're giving up, and get your back checked out for real — not just urgent care.

  • 10
    humble-elk-269

    I was in almost this exact spot last year — rear-ended, loan still on the car, and the payout offer came in under what I owed. What saved me was getting an independent appraisal done instead of just accepting what their adjuster said the car was worth. You can actually dispute their valuation. It's a whole process but it's worth doing.

  • 8
    swift-elk-216

    Not legal advice, but I'll say this much — a lot of people don't realize that in a clear-cut rear-end situation like yours, you may be entitled to more than just vehicle repair. Diminished value, rental coverage, medical expenses, and lost wages (if applicable) can all be part of a claim. The sentimental value of the car unfortunately doesn't factor in legally, but the financial gap absolutely can. Worth at least a free consult before you sign or agree to anything.

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    steady-seal-615

    I used to work on the claims side and yeah, those early calls from the other party's insurer are a fishing expedition. They're hoping you say something like "I'm doing okay" or "it wasn't that bad" so they can document it. Also — those weird electrical gremlins you're describing? Make sure every single one gets noted in writing with a shop before anything gets "fixed." Adjusters love to argue that post-accident electrical issues were pre-existing.