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My PI lawyer basically ghosted me mid-case — do I have grounds for a bar complaint?

I don't even know where to start with this but I need to get it out somewhere.

Back in the spring I got rear-ended at a red light — full stop, turn signal on, waiting for pedestrians to clear. A pickup came flying into me at what the police report estimated was around 35 mph. My car got shoved almost into the intersection. Liability was never in question; the other driver's carrier accepted 100% fault within two weeks.

The injuries were no joke. I ended up with a concussion, a torn labrum in my shoulder, two herniated discs, and a pretty severe whiplash. All documented same-day at the ER and followed up with an orthopedic specialist. I've been in PT twice a week for months.

Here's where it gets messy. My PI attorney — who I signed with pretty quickly after the crash — was responsive for maybe the first six weeks. After that? Crickets. Voicemails unreturned. Emails answered weeks late with like three words. I found out from my own orthopedic office that his staff had stopped responding to their medical records requests. My treatment got delayed because of billing confusion that his office was supposed to sort out with my PIP carrier.

I finally got a human on the phone last week and was basically told my case is "progressing normally." It is not progressing normally. I have outstanding medical bills, a statute of limitations I'm now nervous about, and zero communication.

Has anyone actually filed a bar complaint against their PI attorney? Did it do anything? And is it even worth staying with this person at this point or should I look for someone new?

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  • 5
    genuine-lynx-750

    I went through something almost identical — rear-end, clear liability, and an attorney who basically fell off the face of the earth. I ended up switching lawyers about four months in. The new one got more done in six weeks than the first one did in the entire time I was with them. You can fire your attorney. It feels scary but honestly it was the best decision I made in my whole claim process.

    • 8
      silent-raven-245

      Not legal advice, but I'll say this much: what you're describing — unreturned calls, no status updates, billing issues left unresolved — those aren't just annoyances, they can constitute a breach of an attorney's ethical duties depending on your state's rules of professional conduct. You're absolutely entitled to request your complete file at any time. Do that in writing. And yes, you can consult with another PI attorney about taking over the case; most will give you a free case evaluation and be upfront about whether it makes sense to switch.

  • 13
    silent-fox-685

    A few things worth knowing: First, you have the right to terminate representation at any time — your new attorney typically handles any fee split with the old one, so it usually doesn't cost you extra out of pocket. Second, state bar associations do take communication complaints seriously; failure to keep a client reasonably informed is actually an ethics rule violation in most states, not just bad customer service. Third — and this is urgent — look up your state's statute of limitations for personal injury and make sure you know exactly where you stand on that clock. Don't rely on your current attorney to tell you.

    • 3
      curious-parent996

      That lines up with what my adjuster told me too.

  • 12
    cool-mole-293

    The billing confusion with your PIP carrier is a red flag to me. Sometimes when an attorney's office goes quiet it's because they're juggling way too many cases and yours isn't "big" enough to get attention. Your medical records gap could actually hurt your case down the line — insurers love to argue that treatment delays mean the injuries weren't that serious. Don't let that narrative build.

  • 22
    candid-elk-849

    From the other side of the desk: gaps in treatment records are one of the first things adjusters flag when valuing a claim. If your attorney's office stopped responding to records requests, that creates a documentation hole that will absolutely be used against you. I'm not saying your injuries aren't real — I'm saying the paper trail matters enormously and someone needs to be on top of it. Sounds like that person isn't your current attorney.

    • 15
      kind-seal-971

      I'm so sorry you're dealing with this on top of actually recovering from real injuries. You already went through the trauma of the accident and now you're having to fight just to get basic communication from someone who's supposed to be in your corner. That's exhausting. Please don't feel like you have to stay loyal to an attorney who isn't showing up for you.

    • 6
      hopeful-commuter880

      Did you have to escalate, or did they come around after the first ask?

  • 21
    keen-vole-972

    The part about your PT getting disrupted because of billing chaos — that concerns me from a pure recovery standpoint. Herniated discs and a labrum tear both respond much better to consistent, uninterrupted rehab. Gaps in physical therapy aren't just frustrating, they can set back your actual healing. Please try to keep going even if you have to work out the billing stuff afterward, and document every single session and every gap caused by this mess.

    • 0
      kind-rider523

      How long did it end up taking in your case?

  • 8
    careful-dove-343

    Fire the lawyer. Today if possible. Three-word email replies and a month of ignored voicemails is not someone working hard for you. The bar complaint can come later — right now your priority is protecting your claim before the statute clock becomes a real problem.

    • 7
      tired-dreamer303

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?

    • 6
      level-overpass197

      Took me three tries but they finally budged. Don't give up.

  • 14
    kind-kestrel-681

    Quick question — when you say 'crickets,' how many times did you actually reach out before concluding they were unresponsive? And was anything in your retainer agreement about communication timelines? Not dismissing your experience at all, just wondering if there's any chance there's a miscommunication about expectations versus actual neglect, because the answer changes what your options look like.