The Shoulder
The Shoulder
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Insurancespry-beaver-269

Other driver's insurance called me before I even got home from the ER — offering peanuts already??

So this just happened two days ago and I'm still kind of processing it.

I was stopped at a red light on my way to pick up my kids from school when someone plowed into the back of me. Hard enough that I lurched forward into my seatbelt and hit my hands on the steering wheel. The other driver admitted fault right there on the scene — said he was looking at his phone.

I went to urgent care that same evening because my right shoulder and upper back were already tightening up. They did some X-rays, said nothing was broken, told me to follow up with my regular doctor and to expect soreness to peak in the next day or two.

They were NOT wrong. I woke up yesterday barely able to turn my head to the right.

Here's the part that's making my blood boil: the other driver's insurance company called me the next morning — like before I'd even filled my prescription — offering a flat settlement to just "wrap things up." The number they threw out wouldn't even cover my urgent care copay, let alone whatever follow-up I'm going to need.

My rear bumper also looks way worse in daylight than it did on the scene. There's a crunch sound now when I open my hatchback that definitely wasn't there before.

I told them I needed time to think and they got kind of pushy, which honestly made me more suspicious. I haven't signed or agreed to anything.

Has anyone else had them come at you this fast? Should I just stop answering their calls until I know how bad the injury actually is? Feeling really out of my depth here.

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  • 14
    plain-elk-627

    That fast callback is a MAJOR red flag. They're not calling you out of kindness — they're calling because they want to lock you into a number before you understand the full picture. Soft tissue injuries in the shoulder and neck can take weeks to fully show up, and once you sign, that's it. Do not let them pressure you into anything.

    • 11
      clear-raven-554

      Not legal advice, but this pattern — early low offer, pushy tone, trying to settle before you have a full medical picture — is very common in minor-impact rear-end claims. Insurers know that soft tissue injuries are harder to quantify and they try to close those files fast. You have time. Most states give you at least a couple of years to file a claim. Don't let artificial urgency push you into a decision you can't undo.

  • 18
    silent-swan-923

    I used to work on the inside and I'll be straight with you: when an adjuster calls that quickly with a low offer, it's a calculated move. There's a window right after an accident where people are rattled, don't know what their injuries will cost, and just want it over with. That offer is designed to close your file cheaply before you get any medical documentation. The pushiness you felt is also a tactic — they're trained to create urgency. You were right to pump the brakes.

    • 17
      careful-crane-238

      Please do not skip that follow-up appointment. Shoulder and upper back injuries after a collision can involve things that don't show on a basic X-ray — muscle tears, ligament strain, nerve involvement. It can take 48 to 72 hours for the worst of it to surface, which sounds like exactly what's happening to you right now. Get it documented by a doctor so there's a medical record tied to the accident. That matters a lot down the road.

  • 14
    clear-fox-357

    Same thing happened to me after a rear-end last year. The other side's insurance was calling me within hours, super friendly, very 'we just want to help you move forward.' I almost took it because I was stressed and just wanted it done. My neighbor talked me out of it and honestly thank goodness — my back ended up needing physical therapy for months. That early offer would have been a joke compared to what everything actually cost.

  • 7
    silent-dove-136

    You are under zero obligation to speak with the other driver's insurance company right now. You can tell them — politely — that you're still seeking medical treatment and that you'll be in touch when you have more information. They may keep calling. You can let it go to voicemail. What you don't want to do is give a recorded statement about how you're 'feeling okay' or that the crash 'wasn't that bad' — those things get used later. Until you have a clear picture of your injuries and repair costs, there's no reason to engage.

  • 12
    tidy-fox-833

    Stop answering their calls. You don't owe them a conversation right now. Get to your doctor, get your car to a body shop for a written estimate, and gather everything in one place before you even think about talking settlement numbers. You're negotiating from a much weaker position before you have those documents.

    • 10
      tired-neighbor983

      Appreciate the detailed write-up. Saving this for later.

  • 10
    tidy-wren-636

    Ugh, the fact that they called you BEFORE you even had your prescription filled — that just feels predatory honestly. Please take care of yourself first. The money stuff can wait a little bit but your shoulder can't. Rooting for you 💙

    • 6
      tired-commuter214

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?