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Officer basically did nothing after I got hit by a clearly impaired driver — now what?

This happened four days ago and I'm still fuming about it, so bear with me.

I was driving home from work, totally normal Tuesday, when a car drifted across the center line and sideswiped me hard enough to push me onto the shoulder. When I got out and approached the other driver, I could immediately tell something was off — slow speech, couldn't stand straight, glassy eyes. I called 911 right away and specifically told the dispatcher I believed the driver was impaired.

The responding officer showed up and… just kind of stood there? He never once pulled the other driver aside to do any kind of sobriety check. Didn't ask me for my account separately. Just kind of refereed the whole thing like it was a fender-bender parking lot swap. No field sobriety test, no breathalyzer, nothing. The other driver was visibly struggling to even find their registration.

No citation was issued for anything — not for crossing the center line, not for anything impairment-related. Nothing.

I went back to the station the next day asking them to file a formal report and basically got stonewalled. Some sergeant told me the responding officer has discretion over whether to write citations or pursue further investigation. That was it.

Here's the thing — the other driver's insurance has already called me and basically acknowledged their insured was at fault. So on the liability side I'm probably okay? But it just feels wrong that someone who was clearly impaired is walking around with zero consequences.

Is there anything I can actually do here — file a complaint, contact someone above the sergeant, anything? Or do I just take the insurance win and let it go?

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  • 21
    tidy-seal-593

    I went through something really similar last year — driver ran a red light and I'm almost certain he was on something, and the cop who responded was completely checked out. Never investigated the impairment angle at all. What I did was file a formal complaint with the department's internal affairs or civilian review board (depends on your city). Nothing came of it for me personally, but I felt better having it on record. It also created a paper trail. Definitely worth looking into.

    • 6
      weary-driver157

      Solid advice. Getting it in writing is the part most people skip.

  • 19
    spry-marmot-316

    Don't let the 'we acknowledge fault' call from their insurance lull you into a false sense of security. That's often the opener before they start lowballing you on your actual damages. Get everything documented — photos, your own written account of the scene, anything. And do NOT give them a recorded statement without thinking it through first.

    • 18
      warm-crow-631

      Honestly reading this made me so frustrated on your behalf. You did everything right — you called it in, you told dispatch about the impairment, you went back to the station. The system just failed you at every step. I'm sorry that happened. I hope you're physically okay and that the insurance piece at least works out.

  • 21
    hearty-crane-565

    Not legal advice, but from a legal standpoint the lack of a police report or citation doesn't necessarily tank your civil claim — especially since the other insurer is already indicating liability. The impairment angle could matter more if your damages are significant or if this ever escalated to a lawsuit. Might be worth a free consult with a PI attorney just to understand your options. Most won't charge anything to talk.

    • 7
      patient-survivor732

      Thanks for sharing. Hope things are getting a little easier for you.

  • 22
    bold-finch-558

    Worked claims for years. The insurance company acknowledging fault is meaningful, but 'admitted fault' from an adjuster over the phone is not the same as a signed agreement. Get that in writing however you can. Also, if there's any chance you have injuries — even soft tissue stuff you're brushing off right now — please get checked out before you resolve anything. Adjusters move fast to close files when liability isn't contested.

  • 17
    keen-vole-392

    File the complaint against the officer — not because it'll change what happened, but because it creates a record. Then focus your energy on the insurance side because that's where your actual leverage is. Don't sign anything, don't accept any first offer, and see a doctor even if you feel 'fine.'

    • 2
      calm-commuter859

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

  • 17
    plain-raven-793

    Please go get evaluated if you haven't already. Adrenaline after an accident is real and it genuinely masks pain and injury — I see it constantly. People feel okay at the scene and then wake up two days later with serious neck or back issues that turned into something because they waited. Even a basic urgent care visit starts the medical documentation you'd need if this becomes a bigger claim.

  • 7
    candid-crane-163

    A few things that might help: First, if there were any other witnesses at the scene, try to track them down now — witness memories fade fast. Second, check whether any nearby businesses or traffic cameras might have captured the incident. That footage gets overwritten quickly. Third, your state may have a way to request a crash report be completed through the DMV or DOT even without officer cooperation — it varies by state but it's worth googling your specific state's rules on self-reported accident reports.

  • 19
    keen-beaver-909

    I don't want to be harsh but I'm curious — did you actually see the officer interact with the other driver up close? Sometimes what looks like 'doing nothing' from our end is a cop making a quick judgment call that impairment isn't provable enough for a DUI charge (which has a high bar). Not defending bad police work, just wondering if there's more to the story on that piece. Either way the complaint process still exists for a reason.