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Off-duty firefighter rear-ended my parked truck while I was inside eating breakfast — now what?

Still kind of in shock writing this, so bear with me.

So last Tuesday morning I'm sitting at my kitchen table having coffee when I hear this massive boom outside. I run out and my pickup — totally paid off, parked right in front of my house on a residential street — has been shoved up onto the curb and into the back of my roommate's sedan that was parked ahead of it.

The guy who hit both vehicles? An off-duty firefighter driving a personal SUV. He told the responding officers he dropped his phone and reached down to grab it. They documented that in the report, at least.

Neither vehicle is driveable. Mine is almost certainly a total loss — the frame looks bent and the whole rear end is crushed. My roommate's car has significant rear damage too. We're on the same policy, which I'm now realizing is either convenient or complicated — I genuinely don't know which.

Here's where it gets frustrating: the adjuster called me within like 48 hours, was extremely friendly and chatty, and kept emphasizing how 'straightforward' the claim was. That friendliness is making me nervous for some reason. They're sending someone to inspect both vehicles this week.

I also tweaked my lower back when I ran outside and slipped on the wet grass — nothing serious I think, but it's been bothering me for days and I haven't seen a doctor yet because I didn't think it was a big deal at first.

Rental car runs out in a week. I have no idea what my truck is actually worth or how hard to push back if I don't like their number.

Anyone been through something like this? Especially curious if the firefighter being a public employee changes anything at all.

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  • 17
    mellow-crane-278

    That 'super friendly adjuster' thing is a massive red flag to me. They're trained to build rapport fast so you feel like you're on the same team. You are not on the same team. Don't sign anything or accept any number until you've at least talked to someone outside the insurance company.

  • 16
    bright-marten-998

    I worked claims for years and I'll tell you exactly what 'this is so straightforward' usually means — they've already pegged your truck at a number they think you'll accept without questioning. Pull comparable listings yourself, same year, similar mileage, your region. If their valuation is low you absolutely have room to negotiate, but most people don't know that and just take the first offer. Also, get the rental extended in writing before it runs out. Call today, not next week.

    • 1
      honest-traveler650

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?

  • 17
    mellow-seal-649

    Please go get your back looked at, even just urgent care. I know it feels minor but 'tweaked my back' can turn into something that takes months to resolve, and soft tissue injuries are notoriously slow to show their full picture. The other thing — if you don't document it medically now, it becomes really hard to connect it to the accident later if it gets worse.

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      honest-traveler578

      Curious whether you did this on your own or had help with it.

  • 17
    clear-fox-019

    Went through almost the exact same situation last year — parked car hit, paid-off vehicle, low-ball first offer. The adjuster was nice to me too and I almost just accepted it. A friend convinced me to push back with my own comp research and I ended up getting several thousand more than the first number. Do your homework before you respond to their valuation.

  • 12
    steady-hare-803

    On the public employee question — it really depends on your state. Some states have limited immunity for employees acting outside their official duties, and since he was off-duty and driving a personal vehicle, that immunity argument gets shakier. Not saying it changes everything, but it's worth understanding before you assume you're stuck with whatever his personal insurance offers. Also, two vehicles on the same policy getting hit in one incident can sometimes affect how deductibles and subrogation work — worth asking your insurer to walk you through that specifically.

  • 13
    mellow-newt-256

    Not legal advice, but the back injury piece is the part I'd pay most attention to right now. Property damage on a clear-liability claim like this usually sorts itself out eventually. Bodily injury is different — there are deadlines, documentation matters, and accepting a property settlement before you know the extent of your injuries can sometimes complicate things depending on how the releases are written. Just something to be aware of before you sign anything.

    • 6
      weary-dreamer975

      Same boat here. Did anyone mention a deadline to watch out for?

  • 6
    brave-bison-521

    Ugh, this is so stressful and it's not even your fault at all. Hope your back feels better — please don't tough it out too long before seeing someone. And don't let them pressure you into a fast answer on the truck value just because they're being nice about it.

  • 12
    brave-crow-848

    Three things: 1) See a doctor this week, not eventually. 2) Don't agree to a total loss number without running your own comps on car listing sites first. 3) Call about extending that rental now — waiting until day six is how you end up paying out of pocket. The rest you can figure out as you go.