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Mom (74) hit by a delivery semi — insurance already pushing a quick settlement. Do we get a lawyer?

I'm posting on behalf of my mom because she's still not really in a shape to be dealing with any of this.

About two weeks ago she was driving home from the grocery store when a commercial delivery truck ran a red light and broad-sided her driver's side door. Her car is a complete write-off. The truck driver told the responding officer he "didn't see the light change" — it's right there in the police report.

She was taken by ambulance to the ER. They kept her for three days running tests — MRI, X-rays, the whole thing. She had some internal bruising, two cracked ribs, and a pretty bad concussion. She's home now but she can barely get around without help. We had to move her into my house temporarily because she can't manage stairs on her own. Her doctor is already talking about a long PT road ahead and possibly some follow-up imaging for the head stuff.

Here's where it gets frustrating: the trucking company's insurance called my brother four days after the accident asking for a recorded statement and said they want to "get things resolved quickly" for her. They threw out a number that doesn't even come close to covering what the ER visit alone probably cost — and we haven't even seen a single bill yet.

My mom is the type to just want it all to go away, but something feels really off about how fast they're moving. She's 74, still in pain, and we have no idea what her long-term recovery looks like.

Is this a situation where we really need a lawyer involved? Or are we overthinking it? Any experience with commercial truck accidents specifically would be really helpful right now.

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    genuine-seal-389

    I used to work on the carrier side and I'll be honest with you — when we moved fast on a claim, it was never because we were being generous. Commercial truck policies carry much higher liability limits than personal auto. The early offer is almost never reflective of what the claim is actually worth, especially with an elderly claimant who has documented injuries and an ongoing recovery. Do not let her give a recorded statement. Anything she says can be used to reduce what they ultimately pay.

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    genuine-marten-625

    We went through almost the exact same thing with my father-in-law two years ago — commercial vehicle, fast settlement offer before any bills came in. We almost took it. Please don't let her sign or agree to anything yet. Once she accepts that money, it's almost certainly over and done, even if she ends up needing surgery or months of therapy down the line. We learned that the hard way watching a neighbor go through it.

    • 17
      quick-stoat-775

      "Get things resolved quickly" is insurance-speak for "we know this is worth a lot more and we want to close it before you figure that out." The fact that they called within days of a serious accident involving a commercial truck is a huge red flag. They have claims people whose entire job is to minimize payouts. Your mom doesn't have anyone in her corner yet. That imbalance is exactly what they're counting on.

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      quiet-parent149

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

  • 17
    patient-crane-364

    Short answer: yes, get a lawyer, and do it before anyone in your family says another word to that insurance company. Don't give a recorded statement. Don't accept any offer. Don't sign anything. Commercial truck accidents with documented injuries and a fault admission in the police report are serious claims. An adjuster calling four days post-accident isn't doing your mom any favors — they're doing theirs.

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    tidy-lynx-260

    Not legal advice, but commercially-operated trucks fall under a different regulatory framework than regular drivers, and cases involving them tend to be more complex — there can be multiple liable parties (the driver, the company, even the cargo loader depending on circumstances). The speed of the outreach you're describing is something I'd want to know more about. Most attorneys who handle these cases offer free consultations and work on contingency. It costs nothing to have a conversation before your mom makes any decisions.

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    keen-sparrow-454

    I just want to say — you're a good kid for looking out for her. A lot of parents in that situation would just want the stress to be over and take whatever's offered. You're right to be asking questions. Trust that instinct that something feels off.

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    candid-seal-452

    A few things worth knowing: trucking companies are required to preserve a lot of evidence — driver logs, GPS data, the truck's onboard systems, maintenance records. That evidence can start disappearing or getting overwritten quickly. An attorney can send what's called a spoliation letter to make sure it's preserved. Also, with a police report showing the driver admitted fault and her being transported by ambulance, this is exactly the kind of case most PI attorneys will take on contingency, meaning no upfront cost to your family.

    • 8
      honest-optimist391

      Wish I had seen this a month ago — would have saved me a lot of stress.

  • 7
    spry-kestrel-846

    As someone who works in trauma care — cracked ribs in a 74-year-old are not a minor thing, and concussion symptoms in older adults can evolve over weeks or even months. Cognitive changes, balance issues, chronic pain... her "final" medical picture honestly isn't clear yet. Settling before her doctors have a full sense of her recovery trajectory is really risky. Please make sure all her follow-up appointments are documented carefully.

    • 1
      honest-traveler453

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?