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Hit by an uninsured driver, car totaled, now I'm drowning financially — anyone been here?

I honestly don't even know where to start. About five months ago I got slammed into from behind at a red light by some guy who — surprise — had zero insurance. My car is completely totaled and I've been dealing with a back injury that's kept me off work for most of that time. I do physical labor for a living, so no work = no paycheck. Simple as that.

I've been burning through my savings just to keep up with my car payments because I figured the whole thing would get resolved faster than this. Spoiler: it hasn't. I've managed to scrape together payments for a few months but I'm basically tapped out now. I can't keep doing it.

My question is — what actually happens if I stop making payments on a totaled car before the insurance payout clears? Will they repossess it even though it's just sitting wrecked at a lot? Will that tank my credit? Does the lender even care that none of this was my fault?

I have uninsured motorist coverage on my own policy and a claim is open, but everything is moving at a glacial pace. I haven't been able to return to work and my medical bills are already starting to pile up on top of everything else.

I feel like I did everything right — I had insurance, I was stopped at a light — and I'm still the one suffering for it. If anyone has been through something like this I would really appreciate hearing how you handled it, especially the car payment piece. I'm losing sleep over this.

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  • 21
    quiet-finch-338

    A few things worth knowing: with a UM (uninsured motorist) claim, you're essentially making a claim against your OWN policy, which means your insurer steps into the shoes of the at-fault driver. The process can be slow but you do have rights under your policy.

    Also — if your loan balance is MORE than the total loss payout (meaning you're upside down on the car), check whether you had GAP insurance when you purchased or financed the vehicle. GAP coverage is specifically designed to cover that difference. If you have it, that could make a huge dent in what you owe the lender. Look through your original financing paperwork or call whoever financed the car to ask.

    • 16
      candid-kestrel-738

      This is such an unfair situation and I'm so sorry you're going through it. You did nothing wrong and you're carrying all of this weight. Please don't be too proud to ask family or friends for a short-term loan if you need a bridge while the claim sorts itself out — I know that's hard but this is exactly the kind of situation those people in your life would want to help with.

    • 5
      gentle-survivor161

      This is exactly what I needed to read today. Thank you.

  • 11
    wise-seal-914

    I went through almost this exact nightmare two years ago. Uninsured driver, totaled car, I kept making payments thinking it would wrap up in a few weeks. It didn't. What I eventually did was call my lender directly, explained the situation honestly, and asked about a hardship deferral. They pushed a couple of payments to the end of my loan term. Not a perfect fix, but it bought me breathing room. Definitely worth a call before you just stop paying — lenders would usually rather work with you than deal with a repo on a wreck.

    • 23
      quiet-mole-313

      Worked in auto claims for years before I got out. Here's the reality: your lender has a lien on that vehicle and they will move toward repossession eventually if payments stop, totaled or not — because legally the car still exists as collateral until the title is transferred and the loan is satisfied. The insurance payout on a total loss typically goes to the lienholder first to cover the loan balance. If there's anything left over after that, it comes to you.

      That said, most lenders have seen this situation before and have hardship options. The key is being proactive — call them NOW before you miss a payment, not after. Once you're behind it gets much harder to negotiate. Also make sure your UM claim is being pushed forward actively.

    • 14
      wise-marmot-896

      Not legal advice, but situations like yours — uninsured at-fault driver, documented injury, lost wages, totaled vehicle — are exactly what UM coverage is designed for, including coverage for medical expenses and lost income, not just the car. If you haven't already spoken with a personal injury attorney, most do free consultations and work on contingency so there's no upfront cost. Given how long this has already dragged on, having someone advocate on your behalf with the insurer can sometimes speed things up considerably.

    • 8
      thankful-mile-marker104

      Exactly my experience. Persistence paid off in the end.

    • 5
      quiet-dreamer383

      Wish I had seen this a month ago — would have saved me a lot of stress.

  • 10
    warm-mole-115

    I just want to make sure you're keeping up with your medical treatment and not skipping appointments because of the financial stress. I know it's so tempting to put things off when everything feels overwhelming, but gaps in treatment can genuinely hurt your recovery AND complicate your insurance claim. Make sure everything is documented consistently. Your health comes first, but unfortunately documentation matters a lot in these situations too.

  • 8
    gentle-newt-281

    Three things you need to do this week: 1) Call your lender and ask about a hardship deferral before you miss a payment. 2) Call your insurance company and ask specifically what documentation they still need to move your UM claim forward — sometimes these things stall because something is sitting in a queue waiting on paperwork. 3) Talk to a PI attorney. Free consult, no obligation. Stop waiting and start pushing.

    • 4
      restless-sidewalk715

      Adding this: keep copies of every email. It mattered for me.

  • 6
    plain-kestrel-074

    Please don't assume your own insurance company is in your corner just because you're filing a UM claim. They still have a financial incentive to low-ball you or drag their feet. Document every single call, every email. If an adjuster offers you a quick settlement, be very careful — once you sign, that's usually it.