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Hit and run driver found — police said nothing matched, but I did my own digging. Now what?

So this happened a few nights ago on a busy highway interchange near me. I was merging and out of nowhere a truck clipped my rear quarter panel so hard I spun halfway across the lane. Scared the absolute life out of me. The truck just kept going.

I managed to pull over safely and called 911. Stayed on the shoulder for what felt like forever — turned out to be close to 90 minutes — before an officer finally showed. I gave them everything I had: color, make, rough plate number I'd memorized while my hands were shaking. The officer ran it and basically shrugged and said the plate "didn't return anything useful." Case number, see ya.

Here's the thing though. I'd already snapped a photo of the truck as it sped off. It's not great — motion blur, weird angle — but I could make out most of the plate. I spent the next morning cross-referencing it through a couple of public VIN and plate lookup tools. Found a vehicle that matches my description almost exactly, and the ownership record shows multiple prior incidents involving side-impact collisions. Like, this person has a pattern.

Now I'm sitting here with a stiff neck, a shoulder that's been aching for days, and headaches that won't quit. I went to urgent care and they want me to follow up with a specialist.

My questions: 1. Do I bring my findings back to the police, or does that just go nowhere again? 2. Does my own insurance (I have uninsured motorist coverage) still apply even if I eventually ID the driver? 3. Should I talk to a lawyer before I say anything else to anyone?

I'm not trying to ruin anybody's life. I just don't want to eat the medical bills and the car repairs for something that was 100% not my fault.

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  • 11
    brave-hare-112

    I went through almost the exact same thing last year — hit and run on the freeway, police basically told me good luck. I brought my own evidence back to the station a couple days later and asked to speak directly with the traffic division instead of a patrol officer. It actually made a difference. Someone with more authority took a second look. Don't assume the first officer's dead end is the final answer.

    • 16
      mellow-badger-329

      Not legal advice, but — talk to a PI attorney before you do much else. Specifically before you give any recorded statements to your own insurer about how the accident happened or what your injuries are. Your UM coverage should still be in play whether or not the at-fault driver is ever formally identified, but how you handle the next few steps matters. Most PI lawyers do free consults. Use one.

    • 3
      kind-passenger872

      Did you have to escalate, or did they come around after the first ask?

  • 14
    quiet-beaver-701

    Please be careful about how you communicate with your own insurance company right now. Even your own adjuster is looking for reasons to minimize a UM claim. "Soft tissue," "pre-existing," "unable to confirm liability" — these are all things they'll try to lean on. Document every single symptom, every appointment, every day you wake up sore. And don't let them pressure you into a fast settlement while you're still figuring out how hurt you actually are.

    • 8
      level-road-soul154

      This thread is gold. Thanks everyone.

  • 15
    calm-sparrow-239

    The headaches and shoulder pain after a high-impact collision need proper evaluation — don't let urgent care be your last stop. Neck trauma especially can look mild at first and get significantly worse over days or even weeks as inflammation builds. Make sure you're getting imaging done and keep every record. Your medical documentation is going to matter a lot if this becomes a claim.

    • 7
      mellow-sidewalk319

      Thank you both, this gave me the push I needed to make the call.

  • 18
    cool-lynx-587

    From my time on the other side of the desk: UM claims are handled differently depending on the carrier and the state, but having a solid police report with a case number is your foundation. The extra research you did could actually help supplement that — I've seen supplemental evidence submitted after the fact influence how a claim gets evaluated. That said, run it through a lawyer first so you present it the right way.

    • 21
      clever-sparrow-850

      A couple of practical things: First, go back to the police non-emergency line and ask specifically about amending or supplementing your report with new evidence. Bring printed photos and whatever documentation you found. Second, your UM coverage doesn't depend on the other driver being caught — it exists precisely for situations like yours. What matters is that you reported it to police promptly, which you did. Keep copies of everything.

  • 9
    bright-crane-600

    Stop doing more research on your own and stop posting details of what you found publicly. Get a lawyer on the phone today. Seriously, today. You've already done the hard part by staying calm, getting a photo, and filing a report. Now let someone who knows what they're doing take it from here.

    • 4
      plainspoken-backseat842

      This thread is gold. Thanks everyone.

  • 12
    tidy-marmot-703

    I'm really sorry this happened to you. The fact that you kept your cool enough to get a photo while your car was still spinning out is honestly remarkable. Please take care of yourself physically — the legal stuff can get sorted but don't push through the pain and make something worse.

    • 3
      patient-rider705

      That lines up with what my adjuster told me too.

  • 18
    quick-beaver-109

    Quick question — when you say the plate lookup matched your description, how close are we talking? Same color and body style, or an actual strong match? I ask because I'd want to be careful about being too certain before bringing it back to police. If you go in with a weak ID and it falls apart, it could undermine your credibility on the rest of the claim. How confident are you in what you found?

    • 8
      hopeful-survivor600

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?