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Hit and run in my apartment lot — driver gave cops fake insurance, now carrier says they can't reach anyone

I'm honestly at a loss and could use some outside perspective because this whole situation feels surreal.

About six weeks ago I came back from a grocery run and found the rear quarter panel of my car completely caved in. No note, nothing. A neighbor knocked on my door that evening and said she'd watched the whole thing from her balcony — a guy in a dark pickup clipped me while trying to squeeze out of a tight spot, looked at the damage, and just left. She gave me his plate number, bless her heart.

I called the police, they tracked the registration, and a responding officer actually went to the guy's address. He admitted to it but gave the cop an insurance card that — surprise — turned out to be expired by almost a year. His current carrier is completely different.

I filed a third-party claim with what I thought was his active insurer based on some digging I did, and they confirmed a policy exists under a family member's name. But now they're telling me they "cannot reach the policyholder to confirm coverage" for this driver. Meanwhile I literally drove past the guy washing his truck in his own driveway two days ago.

I have:

  • My neighbor's written statement with the plate number
  • The police report with his admission
  • Photos of the damage taken that same evening
  • A photo I discreetly took of him and his truck at his house (timestamped)

My own insurance has uninsured/underinsured coverage but I really don't want to burn my own claim if I don't have to. Has anyone navigated something like this? Do I just wait the insurance company out, or is there a point where I need to escalate somehow?

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  • 19
    cool-fox-924

    Quick question — when you say you 'dug around' and found the active carrier, how did you get that info exactly? Because if the carrier you filed with doesn't actually cover that vehicle, they might be stringing you along in an investigation that was never going to pay out anyway. Just want to make sure you're knocking on the right door here.

    • 5
      calm-neighbor716

      Wish I had seen this a month ago — would have saved me a lot of stress.

  • 18
    hearty-marten-887

    Not legal advice, but the combination of a police report with an admission, a witness statement, and documented photos is a really solid evidentiary foundation. The tricky part here is the coverage question — whether that family member's policy extends to this driver is what the insurer is probably actually investigating, not whether the accident happened. Those are two separate issues and it's worth understanding that distinction. A PI attorney consult is usually free and could clarify your leverage quickly.

  • 16
    keen-dove-560

    This is almost identical to what happened to me last year. The other driver's family kept 'not being reachable' for weeks. What finally moved things was my own insurance company stepping in and sending a demand letter on my behalf — suddenly the other carrier found a way to get in touch. Don't underestimate how much pressure your own insurer can apply even if you're not filing through them directly.

    • 14
      gentle-tern-871

      The 'we can't reach the policyholder' line is a stall tactic, full stop. They're hoping you get frustrated and either go through your own insurance or just give up. Document every single phone call — date, time, rep's name, exactly what was said. That paper trail matters if this escalates.

    • 10
      steady-sparrow-467

      File a complaint with your state insurance commissioner right now. Seriously, do it today. It takes maybe 15 minutes online and it puts the carrier on a clock they actually care about. Everything else you're doing sounds right — just add that.

  • 13
    bold-lynx-515

    I used to work claims and I'll be straight with you: when a carrier says they can't reach someone, they often mean they've sent a letter and made one or two calls. They're not exactly hiring a private investigator. You can formally request a coverage decision in writing — ask them to either accept or deny the claim. That forces their hand because they can't just sit in limbo forever without potential bad-faith exposure. File a complaint with your state's Department of Insurance if they stall past 30 days without a written status update.

    • 3
      curious-traveler611

      Wish I had seen this a month ago — would have saved me a lot of stress.

  • 7
    hearty-badger-578

    A few practical things worth knowing: most states require insurers to acknowledge a claim within a specific number of days and then resolve or deny it within another set window — usually somewhere between 30 and 45 days total depending on where you are. If they blow past those deadlines without a decision, that's potentially a bad-faith claim against them, not just the driver. Also, that photo of him at his house is genuinely useful — it undercuts the 'unreachable' narrative. Keep it safe.

  • 3
    brave-swift-837

    I'm so sorry you're dealing with this — you did everything right and you're still the one stuck waiting. It's incredibly frustrating. Please don't let them wear you down into just accepting a bad outcome. You have receipts.