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Hit and run 3 months ago — police closed the case and I'm fuming. What now?

So back in the fall I was parked on a side street near my apartment when someone side-swiped my car and just... drove off. I happened to catch it on my dashcam — got a decent shot of the vehicle, a pretty distinctive wrap on the side, and even a partial plate. Felt like I had more to work with than most people in this situation.

Filed a police report the same day. The officer seemed interested at first, took my footage, said they'd follow up. Then silence. I called the non-emergency line three times over the next few weeks. Got the runaround every time. Eventually someone told me the case was "inactive" because they couldn't confirm the registered owner from a partial plate alone.

I'm sorry, but that feels like a cop-out. There's a whole traffic camera grid in that area and the vehicle had to pass through at least two intersections after leaving the scene. Feels like nobody wanted to do the legwork.

I paid for the repairs myself because I didn't want to mess with my own insurance rates. Total gut punch.

Now here's the extra wrinkle — I've since relocated to a completely different state for work. I don't even know if I can realistically chase this anymore from far away, or if there's any point.

Does anyone have experience pushing back on a closed police investigation? Is there anything I can actually do at this point, or do I just eat the loss and move on? Really struggling with just letting this guy get away with it.

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    spry-stoat-950

    Not legal advice, but worth knowing: if you ever do identify the driver — whether through your own digging, a tip, or the police eventually following up — you'd have a civil claim separate from whatever the criminal side does or doesn't do. The standard of proof in civil court is lower than criminal. I've seen people track down hit-and-run drivers through social media after spotting the vehicle wrap or distinctive detail you're describing. It's a long shot but not unheard of. Talking to a PI attorney in the state where it happened (many do free consultations) could at least tell you what your options actually look like.

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      candid-dove-160

      I'm so sorry, this is such a violation. You did everything right — had footage, filed immediately, followed up — and still got nowhere. That's genuinely maddening. Please don't just "eat it" without at least exploring your insurance options first. You might be leaving money on the table that you're actually entitled to.

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    quiet-fox-331

    Be careful about one thing: if you haven't already notified your own insurance about this, do it now even though you paid out of pocket. Most policies have an uninsured motorist property damage provision specifically for hit-and-runs, but there are deadlines to report. If you wait too long, they can and will deny you on that basis alone. The fact that you self-paid doesn't necessarily close that door yet — but it might if you sit on it.

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    wise-wren-030

    Former adjuster here. The partial-plate thing is genuinely a hurdle for police, but it's less of one than they make it sound. What they can do is narrow a pool of registered vehicles by make, model, color, and partial characters, then cross-reference with the area. It's tedious but not impossible. The honest truth is that property-damage hit-and-runs are low priority for most departments unless there's an injury involved. It's frustrating and unfair, but that's the reality.

    On the insurance side — if your policy had uninsured motorist coverage, you may still have options. Talk to your carrier or an attorney before you assume the door is fully closed.

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    bright-sparrow-915

    This happened to me a couple years ago — almost identical situation where I had partial footage and the cops basically shrugged. What actually moved the needle for me was going in person to the precinct and asking to speak with the detective assigned rather than just calling. Phone calls are easy to ignore. A person standing at a desk is harder to brush off. Also asked them specifically whether they'd requested footage from the city's traffic management system, because patrol officers often don't know how to do that themselves — it sometimes has to go through a different department.

    • 9
      calm-wanderer228

      Appreciate the detailed write-up. Saving this for later.

    • 4
      soft-spoken-overpass502

      Exactly my experience. Persistence paid off in the end.

  • 8
    genuine-wren-442

    A couple of things worth knowing: even though you've moved states, the incident happened where it happened, so any civil claim would still be filed there. That doesn't mean you have to physically be there for most of it — a lot can be handled remotely, especially early on. Also, if you can ever identify the driver, the statute of limitations clock is what really matters, not where you're living now. Keep all your evidence backed up somewhere safe — dashcam file, photos, police report number, receipts for repairs.

    • 8
      sharp-marmot-729

      Honestly? Start a paper trail with your city council rep or whoever oversees the police department. Sounds dramatic but it sometimes works. A quick email saying "I have dashcam footage of a hit-and-run, filed a report, case went inactive, and I'd like to understand why traffic camera footage wasn't requested" can light a small fire under someone. Elected officials hate constituents feeling like cases were mishandled. It costs you nothing and occasionally something actually happens.

    • 4
      kind-commuter846

      Seconding this. The same approach worked for me last year.

  • 5
    gentle-swan-862

    Quick question — when you say you paid out of pocket to avoid affecting your rates, did you actually call your insurance to ask, or did you just assume? Depending on your policy, filing an uninsured motorist claim doesn't always impact your premium the same way an at-fault claim does. Might be worth a call before you write it off entirely.

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      honest-rider299

      Curious whether you did this on your own or had help with it.