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Hit-and-run driver who smashed my parked car got identified — what actually happens to them now?

So I was at work all day and came back to find my car door caved in and a huge scrape running down the whole side panel. No note, nothing. Whoever did it just drove off.

Thankfully my neighbor has a security camera pointed at the street and caught the whole thing on video — clear shot of the plate and even the driver's face. I filed a police report the same evening with the footage, and my insurance got involved right after. Through the plate, they were able to pull the registered owner's info and pass it along.

Now I'm sitting here wondering — what actually happens to this person? Like obviously their insurance is probably going to take a hit, and hopefully my repairs get covered. But shouldn't leaving the scene of an accident be a criminal thing? Even if nobody was physically hurt, my car didn't damage itself.

I've heard hit-and-run can be anything from a traffic ticket all the way up to a misdemeanor or worse depending on the state. Does the police report I filed actually go anywhere, or does it just sit in a pile somewhere? I want this person to face some kind of consequence beyond just a rate hike.

Has anyone been through this? Did the person who hit your parked car actually get charged with anything, or did it just quietly disappear into insurance paperwork? I'm not trying to ruin anyone's life but I also don't think you should be able to smash someone's property and just… drive away.

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  • 24
    wise-heron-222

    Almost exact same thing happened to me — parked outside a grocery store, came back to a crushed rear bumper. A witness had written down the plate and left it under my wiper. I filed the police report and honestly the responding officer told me upfront that unless the department had bandwidth, a parked-car hit-and-run often doesn't get actively investigated. BUT — and this matters — because I had the report on file, when the other driver's insurance eventually got looped in, the at-fault determination was pretty clear. Hang onto every piece of that video footage and make copies in multiple places.

    • 4
      curious-neighbor627

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

    • 8
      thankful-late-shift661

      Did the timeline change anything for you? Mine dragged on for weeks.

  • 16
    warm-stoat-284

    Just a heads up — be careful about how much you communicate directly with the other driver's insurance if they reach out. They are not on your side, full stop. Their job is to minimize the payout. Let your own insurer handle the back-and-forth, and don't give any recorded statements to the at-fault party's carrier without thinking it through first.

    • 6
      careful-driver576

      Seconding this. The same approach worked for me last year.

  • 13
    kind-swan-986

    Worked in claims for years. Here's the honest reality: the criminal side and the insurance side run completely independently of each other. Whether the police pursue a misdemeanor charge has zero bearing on how the insurance claim gets settled, and vice versa. That said, a solid police report with video evidence makes the liability picture very clean on the claims side — adjusters love it when there's no ambiguity. Push your insurer to pursue subrogation against the at-fault driver's carrier so you don't end up eating your own deductible.

    • 6
      careful-rider942

      Wish I had seen this a month ago — would have saved me a lot of stress.

  • 9
    genuine-heron-895

    The criminal classification for leaving the scene really does vary a lot by state. Some states treat any hit-and-run — even with no injuries, just property damage — as a misdemeanor with real teeth (fines, possible license suspension). Others treat it more like an enhanced traffic infraction. The footage you have is genuinely valuable if the DA or city prosecutor decides to pursue it. Worth calling the non-emergency line and asking the officer assigned to your report whether it's been forwarded to anyone for review. That one follow-up call can make a difference in whether it gets attention or collects dust.

  • 12
    kind-marten-865

    Three things: (1) Back up that video to the cloud TODAY if you haven't. (2) Get a repair estimate in writing from a body shop, even before anything is settled — you'll need that number. (3) Follow up with the police report in writing via email so there's a paper trail of you being proactive. Don't just wait and assume the system moves on its own.

  • 16
    quiet-owl-404

    Ugh, I'm so sorry this happened to you. The fact that someone can do that kind of damage and just drive away is infuriating. Really glad your neighbor's camera caught it — that footage is honestly huge. Rooting for you that this person actually faces something real.

  • 19
    careful-crane-488

    Quick question — did the police actually confirm they're treating it as a hit-and-run under the statute, or did they just take your report as a property damage incident? There's sometimes a difference in how they code it, and that affects whether any criminal process gets triggered at all. Worth clarifying before you assume the wheels are turning.

    • 5
      level-road-soul247

      Did the timeline change anything for you? Mine dragged on for weeks.

    • 3
      honest-walker677

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

  • 11
    gentle-sparrow-518

    Honestly the fact that you have clear video with a readable plate puts you in a WAY better position than most people who deal with this. A lot of folks have nothing and end up just filing under their own uninsured motorist or collision coverage and moving on. You actually have a real shot at full accountability here — both on the insurance side and potentially the legal side. Keep pushing.