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Hit-and-run driver lied to cops about hitting me — now I have to go to court??

I genuinely cannot believe this has gone this far and I need to know if anyone has dealt with something similar.

A few months ago I was stopped at a red light when someone clipped the back corner of my car pretty hard. I saw exactly who did it. The driver pulled into a nearby parking lot and I followed, figuring we'd just swap info like normal people. Instead, the guy looks at my car, looks at me, and straight-up says he has no idea what I'm talking about. Like he didn't just hit me thirty seconds ago.

I stayed calm and said I was going to call the police. He shrugged like he didn't care. While I was on the phone with dispatch a woman showed up — seemed like she knew him — and they started talking quietly off to the side. That made me really uneasy so I waited in my car until the officers arrived.

The cops came, took my statement, looked at the damage on my bumper, and also talked to him. He denied everything to the police too. I was floored. They still wrote something up and gave me a report number before letting me go.

Fast forward to this week: I get a subpoena in the mail ordering me to appear in court. I've never been to court in my life. From what I can piece together, this guy must be fighting whatever citation they issued him, and now I'm being called as a witness.

Honestly I'm scared. I don't know what to expect, what to bring, or how to act. I also never filed a claim because the damage looked minor and I just wanted to move on. Does that hurt me now? Does anyone have experience being subpoenaed in a situation like this? Any advice would mean a lot right now.

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    cool-seal-515

    Oh wow, I went through almost the exact same thing — someone rear-ended me and denied it on the scene, and I ended up having to testify when they fought the ticket. It sounds scary but honestly it wasn't as bad as I expected. You just tell the truth exactly as you remember it. The judge has seen this kind of thing before. Bring any photos you took at the scene and the police report number if you have it.

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    clear-mole-549

    A subpoena like this usually means the driver is contesting the traffic citation in court — that's pretty common when someone doesn't want points on their license or higher insurance rates. As a witness you're not on trial, you're just there to tell the court what you saw and experienced. Show up on time, dress neatly, and answer only what's asked — don't volunteer extra information. If you have photos, a copy of the police report, or even just notes you jotted down afterward, bring them. Courts take witness testimony seriously, especially when there's documented damage to back it up.

  • 13
    quiet-swan-100

    Just a heads-up — even though you didn't file a claim, you might want to loop your own insurance company in now just so they're aware this happened. If this guy somehow tries to flip it and claim you did something, you don't want to be caught off guard. Insurers don't always have your back but they like knowing about stuff before it becomes a bigger problem.

  • 19
    careful-marten-399

    Not legal advice, but just so you know — as a subpoenaed witness you are legally required to appear. Ignoring it isn't an option. The good news is your role is simple: truthful testimony about what you witnessed firsthand. If you feel nervous about it, many attorneys offer free consultations and could walk you through what to expect for literally a 15-minute phone call. Couldn't hurt.

    • 2
      honest-survivor162

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

  • 7
    quiet-crane-991

    Also — and I only say this because people overlook it — how are you physically? Sometimes after a collision that seemed minor people start noticing neck stiffness or headaches days or weeks later and brush it off. If you've had any of that, it's worth mentioning to your doctor now rather than later, especially with a court date coming up.

  • 10
    clever-badger-347

    You have nothing to worry about. You're the victim and a witness, not a defendant. Go in, tell the truth, don't exaggerate, don't minimize. That's literally it. The fact that he's dragging this to court actually makes him look worse, not you.

  • 15
    bold-marten-481

    From what I've seen, drivers who deny fault on the scene and then fight a ticket in court are usually doing it to protect their driving record or avoid a premium hike. It's a calculated move, not a sign that they actually have a strong case. Courts are pretty skeptical when physical damage to a vehicle contradicts a driver's denial. Your credibility as a witness is honestly your biggest asset — just be consistent with what you told the police.

  • 14
    mellow-lynx-627

    This sounds so stressful, I'm sorry you're dealing with it. You did everything right — you pulled over, called the police, stayed safe. The fact that this guy is still fighting it is honestly wild. Sending you good vibes for the court date, you've got this.

    • 7
      careful-driver405

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?