The Shoulder
The Shoulder
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steady-wolf-995

Guy brake-checked me twice on a merge ramp, I have it all on dashcam — now what?

Still kind of processing everything that happened a few months ago so bear with me.

I was heading to work on a two-lane on-ramp that feeds into the interstate. Some guy in a pickup had been weaving around me for about half a mile — clearly annoyed I wouldn't let him squeeze ahead. He finally muscled in front of me and just… stomped his brakes. For no reason. I slowed down, gave him space, and then when traffic started moving again he did it a second time.

I swerved to avoid rear-ending him and caught the corner of his truck with my front quarter panel. The spin put me partially into the shoulder. Nobody was physically hurt, thank god, but my car had to be flatbedded.

Here's where it gets infuriating: responding officers cited ME. Said I was following too closely. Meanwhile my dashcam caught literally everything — the weaving, both brake checks, all of it.

I ended up having to hire a traffic attorney. After my lawyer showed the footage to the prosecutor, they agreed to let me do a defensive driving course and dismiss the charge entirely. Case closed on that front.

But I'm still out:

  • Attorney fees
  • My insurance deductible
  • A rental car for almost two weeks
  • And now I'm terrified my premiums are going to spike

A friend told me that since the video clearly shows he provoked the whole thing, I might be able to go after him in civil court to recover some of what I paid out. Is that realistic? Has anyone actually done something like that? I don't want to throw more money at lawyers if this is a lost cause, but it genuinely wasn't my fault and it cost me a lot.

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    candid-crane-070

    Back up that dashcam footage to cloud storage, a USB drive, AND email it to yourself today. Seriously. I've seen people lose the only thing that would've saved them because a card got corrupted or overwritten. Everything else — the lawsuit question, the premiums — can wait a day. The footage cannot.

    • 4
      steady-traveler281

      Did you have to escalate, or did they come around after the first ask?

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    sharp-dove-674

    This whole situation sounds so exhausting and unfair. You did everything right — you had a dashcam, you got a lawyer, you completed the course — and you're still the one out all that money while the guy who actually caused it just drove away. I really hope you're able to recover at least some of what this cost you. Rooting for you.

    • 8
      quiet-walker899

      This is really helpful — thank you for posting it.

  • 13
    quick-owl-929

    I don't want to be harsh but I'd want to know more before saying the civil case is a slam dunk. Like, how clear is the footage actually? 'I could see what happened' and 'a judge will clearly see what happened' aren't always the same thing. And do you even know who the other driver is / can you locate them? If you have solid contact info from the police report AND the video is unambiguous, then yeah, it sounds promising. But those two things matter a lot.

  • 12
    cool-elk-514

    Glad no one was physically hurt. One thing people don't think about after crashes like this — even without a 'real' injury, your body goes through an adrenaline spike and sometimes soft tissue stuff doesn't show up for days. If you notice any neck stiffness or back soreness in the next week or two, go get checked out and document it. Don't just assume you're fine because you felt fine at the scene.

  • 10
    kind-dove-343

    Not legal advice, but the fact that your criminal charge was dismissed after the prosecutor reviewed the video is actually meaningful in a civil context — it establishes a record that the evidence supported your version of events. The other driver's behavior could be characterized as negligent or even reckless, which changes the damages conversation. I'd at least get a free consultation before deciding it's not worth it.

  • 9
    cool-owl-362

    I used to work claims and I'll tell you — a clean dashcam showing deliberate brake-checks is genuinely rare and genuinely powerful. Most 'he said/she said' rear-end cases default against the following driver automatically. Yours doesn't fit that mold at all. Whether your rates go up depends heavily on how your insurer coded the claim internally. You can actually call and ask how it was categorized — 'not-at-fault' coding should shield you from a surcharge, but that's not guaranteed depending on your state and policy.

  • 8
    spry-swan-137

    Almost the exact same thing happened to me on a highway connector ramp two years ago. Guy cut me off, brake-checked me, and I got cited too even though I had video. Honestly the dashcam saved me — without it I don't know how my case would have gone. Definitely don't let that footage sit around; back it up in multiple places RIGHT NOW if you haven't already.

  • 8
    spry-mole-776

    Please be really careful talking to your own insurance company about the civil recovery angle. Adjusters are not your friends in this situation — anything you say about the incident can be used to reframe liability. If you're thinking about suing the other driver, talk to an attorney first before you have any more conversations with your insurer about the details.

  • 7
    daring-fox-195

    The civil recovery idea your friend mentioned isn't crazy. Small claims court exists for exactly this kind of situation — recovering out-of-pocket losses when someone else caused you harm. The threshold varies by state but attorney fees, your deductible, and rental costs could all potentially be claimed. Your dashcam footage would be your primary exhibit. The tricky part is actually collecting if you win, since the other driver could just… not pay. Worth at least a free consult with a PI attorney to see if it's worth pursuing.

    • 7
      gentle-wanderer651

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?