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Got served papers over a slow parking lot tap — they're claiming injuries??

I am genuinely losing sleep over this and need to hear from people who've dealt with something similar.

About eight months ago I barely nudged a sedan while pulling into a spot at a grocery store. We're talking maybe 2 mph, and my compact SUV left a paint scuff on their rear bumper — no crumpling, no glass, nothing structural. The other driver was in the car, we got out, looked at it together, and honestly the other person seemed totally fine. A little annoyed, sure, but walking around, checking their phone, not holding their neck or anything.

We swapped info. I noticed their proof of insurance looked off but they said they had coverage. I filed a claim with my own insurer just to be safe and everything went quiet.

Fast forward to last week — I get served with a civil lawsuit. The complaint says things like "violent collision," "significant bodily trauma," and lists out physical therapy, anxiety treatment, and lost wages as damages. The dollar amount they're seeking made me feel sick.

I have photos from the scene showing the scuff. My dashcam footage shows the whole thing — it's honestly embarrassing how slow I was going. The word "violent" does not match what's on that video.

My questions: 1. Do I call my insurance company first or go find a lawyer first? 2. Can my dashcam footage actually help here? 3. Has anyone successfully fought back against an exaggerated claim like this?

I feel like I'm being railroaded for something that was a minor parking lot oops. Any advice or shared experiences would mean a lot right now.

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  • 20
    clear-bison-279

    Not legal advice, but: contact your auto insurance carrier immediately and tell them you received a summons and complaint. That triggers their obligation to defend you under most standard liability policies. Do not contact the person suing you or their attorney directly. Your dashcam footage could be very significant — preserve it in multiple formats and locations now. A lot of these cases look scarier than they end up being once actual evidence enters the picture.

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    humble-wren-372

    Quick question — does your policy have solid liability limits? Because the strategy here might shift depending on how much coverage you actually have. Also, did you ever get anything in writing from your insurer acknowledging the original claim you filed after the incident? That paper trail matters.

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    quick-mole-752

    I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. The stress of getting served papers is awful even when you KNOW you didn't do anything seriously wrong. Please don't try to handle this alone — loop in your insurance company today and let them take some of the weight. You have evidence. That matters.

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      hopeful-wanderer138

      Same boat here. Did anyone mention a deadline to watch out for?

  • 16
    mellow-hare-569

    From the inside, I can tell you that low-speed impact claims with soft-tissue or psychological injuries are extremely common and also extremely hard to disprove without good evidence — which it sounds like you actually have. The dashcam footage and your photos are gold. When I was handling claims, video evidence from the scene genuinely changed the trajectory of cases like this. Make sure your insurer knows immediately that the footage exists. Don't wait for them to ask.

    • 14
      humble-owl-655

      First thing — you have a deadline to respond to that lawsuit. It'll be stated in the paperwork, usually somewhere between 20 and 30 days depending on your state. Missing that deadline can result in a default judgment against you even if your case is totally defensible. Call your insurance company today and tell them you've been served. They should loop in a defense attorney if you have liability coverage. Keep copies of everything you were handed.

    • 5
      kind-passenger569

      Solid advice. Getting it in writing is the part most people skip.

  • 13
    calm-bison-474

    Oh man, I went through something scarily similar. Low-speed parking lot bump, and the other party came back months later with a laundry list of injuries. The dashcam footage was honestly the single most important thing I had. Don't downplay it — get that footage backed up somewhere safe TODAY, like multiple places. It made a huge difference in how seriously the other side took disputing my case.

    • 10
      clear-otter-421

      Call your insurance company, yes — but go in with your eyes open. They're going to assign you a defense if you have liability coverage, but remember their interests and your interests aren't always perfectly aligned. They may want to settle fast and cheap just to close the file. Keep your own records of everything and don't agree to anything without understanding what it means for you personally.

  • 13
    curious-kestrel-059

    I'm not dismissing that a person can feel shaken after even a minor collision — that's real. But 'violent impact' causing ongoing physical injury from a 2 mph bump is a stretch that any decent medical expert would scrutinize. If this goes further, the medical records they submit to support their claims will be examined pretty carefully. Just something to keep in mind — the language in the lawsuit isn't automatically the reality.

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      thankful-offramp431

      Saving this whole thread. Really appreciate the honesty here.

  • 5
    plain-elk-640

    I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but you are actually in a better position than a lot of people in this situation. You have dashcam footage. You have photos. You filed a claim at the time. A lot of people facing inflated lawsuits don't have any of that. Lean on your evidence — it's there for exactly this kind of moment.