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Got hit by a car while walking — out-of-state visitor, flying home in 48 hrs. What do I do?

Still kind of in shock writing this. I was visiting my cousin for the weekend and yesterday afternoon I got hit by a car while I was crossing the street. I had the light. Completely in my right to be there. The driver blew through and clipped me hard enough to knock me off my feet and into the curb.

Ambulance came, I went to the ER, spent most of the night getting X-rays and checked out. My wrist is badly sprained, possible hairline fracture — they want me to follow up with an orthopedic specialist. My knee is a mess too.

Here's the problem: I live across the country and my return flight is day after tomorrow. I took photos at the scene, got one witness's number, and the police came and filed a report. But I have no idea how to actually GET that report — apparently I have to request it and it takes a few weeks?

A few things I'm confused about:

  • The driver was in a rental car. Do I go after the rental company's insurance, the driver's personal insurance, or both?
  • Do I need a lawyer where the accident happened, or can I use one back home?
  • Should I call the at-fault driver's insurance myself or just wait?
  • The ER bills haven't even arrived yet and I'm already stressed

I don't want to leave and feel like I dropped the ball on something important. Has anyone dealt with a cross-state situation like this? What did you wish you'd done before you left?

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  • 17
    keen-fox-955

    I went through something similar — got hurt on a trip and had to fly home before I felt like I had everything sorted. Honestly the most important thing I did before leaving was writing down EVERYTHING while it was fresh. Like a full narrative — what time, what direction you were walking, what the weather was, what the driver said to you at the scene, all of it. You'll be surprised how fast details blur, especially with the stress and the pain meds.

    • 7
      level-sidewalk971

      Exactly my experience. Persistence paid off in the end.

  • 9
    silent-owl-416

    Before your flight: (1) request the police report in writing or online if the department allows it — most do now, check their website tonight. (2) Photograph every bruise and injury again tomorrow morning, lighting is better and swelling often looks worse by day 2. (3) Get the rental company name and location off any paperwork you have from the scene. Don't call anyone's insurance yet until you know what you're dealing with.

  • 23
    steady-marten-947

    On the rental car question — this gets a little layered. The rental company may have liability coverage but there's a federal law called the Graves Amendment that generally shields rental companies from liability for the driver's negligence, so the focus usually shifts to the driver's own personal auto policy. That said, if the driver had no insurance or minimal coverage, there may be other angles. This is really a situation where getting an attorney involved early matters, because sorting out which policies apply is exactly the kind of thing that trips people up. Most PI attorneys do free consults and work on contingency so there's no upfront cost to at least talk to one.

    • 3
      gentle-parent402

      Appreciate the detailed write-up. Saving this for later.

  • 12
    brave-crow-920

    Please do NOT call the at-fault driver's insurance and give a recorded statement before you have legal advice. They will absolutely use it against you. Adjusters are trained to ask questions that sound friendly and routine but are designed to get you to minimize your injuries or accept partial fault. You're still in the acute phase — you don't even fully know the extent of your injuries yet.

    • 5
      patient-walker141

      Same boat here. Did anyone mention a deadline to watch out for?

  • 12
    warm-sparrow-960

    Speaking from experience on the other side of the desk: if the other driver's insurer reaches out to you first, be polite but say nothing more than confirming the accident happened and that you'll be in touch. Don't discuss fault, don't discuss how you're feeling, don't say 'I'm okay' even casually. That 'I'm okay' gets noted. Also, document your rental car situation thoroughly — the coverage question is legitimate and it matters which policy is primary.

    • 4
      kind-driver431

      Appreciate the detailed write-up. Saving this for later.

    • 7
      plainspoken-sidewalk915

      Adding this: keep copies of every email. It mattered for me.

  • 16
    hearty-finch-336

    Please follow up on that possible fracture as soon as you're home — don't wait for pain to get worse before you see the orthopedic specialist. Hairline fractures can become serious if they're not properly immobilized early. Also keep a log of your symptoms: sleep disruption, pain levels, anything you can't do that you normally could. That documentation matters medically AND for any claim down the road.

  • 8
    curious-wolf-561

    Not legal advice, but generally speaking — the accident happened in that state, so that state's laws govern the claim. That doesn't necessarily mean you need a local attorney physically present; many PI lawyers handle out-of-state accidents regularly and work with local co-counsel if needed. The more important thing is finding someone experienced in multi-state personal injury situations sooner rather than later, since statutes of limitations vary and you don't want to accidentally let time run.

  • 15
    tidy-wren-852

    I just want to say — take a breath. You're dealing with a lot right now and it makes sense that you're overwhelmed. You're asking the right questions and you clearly haven't dropped the ball. Hopefully your cousin can help you gather anything last-minute before you head to the airport. Hope your wrist heals up fast. 💙

    • 5
      careful-survivor305

      Thanks for sharing. Hope things are getting a little easier for you.

    • 4
      weathered-sidewalk457

      Thank you both, this gave me the push I needed to make the call.