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Commercial driver smashed my parked car and tried to pay me off before I got estimates — what do I do?

So this happened about a week ago and I'm still kind of in shock about how brazen this whole situation was.

I was at work, parked in our company lot like any normal day. Apparently a delivery driver for some kind of freight company took a wrong turn into our lot and tried to do a wide U-turn in a space that was way too tight for his rig. He clipped the entire rear driver's side of my car hard enough to push it sideways into the curb. We're talking crumpled quarter panel, smashed tail light, bent bumper — and honestly I'm worried about frame or axle damage from how it got shoved into that concrete stop.

Here's the kicker: he just left. Didn't knock on any doors, didn't leave a note, nothing. Fortunately our building has external cameras that caught everything — plate number, company logo on the side of the truck, the whole thing. I filed a police report same day.

I tracked down the company through the DOT number on the truck and called them. A woman who introduced herself as being "from the operations team" called me back pretty quickly. She was super friendly and casually offered me a flat amount to "just handle this between us" and skip filing with their insurance. I told her I hadn't even gotten an estimate yet so I wasn't agreeing to anything.

Now I've got two body shop quotes and both are coming in well above what she offered. Surprise, surprise.

I also found out from a coworker that the same truck may have nicked another vehicle on the way out of the lot — so this might not even be isolated.

Do I go straight to their insurance? Do I need my own attorney? I only have liability on my car so I can't go through my own insurer here. Feeling pretty lost.

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    cool-swift-088

    That "let's keep this between us" offer is a massive red flag. Companies do that because they know what a proper claim — especially with a commercial carrier — could actually cost them. If they're jumping to offer you cash before you even have estimates, it means they're scared. Don't take it. Get everything documented and go through their insurance directly.

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      genuine-newt-034

      A few practical things worth doing right now if you haven't already: (1) Download or request copies of all the camera footage before it gets overwritten — confirm with your building manager how long they retain it. (2) Keep every single receipt or expense related to this, including any rideshare or rental costs if your car is undriveable. (3) Write down everything you remember about the conversation with the "operations team" woman, including the date, time, what she said, and what she offered. That offer itself could be relevant later.

    • 1
      kind-commuter425

      Same boat here. Did anyone mention a deadline to watch out for?

  • 24
    humble-newt-405

    I used to work claims and I've seen this play out dozens of times. Commercial trucking policies are usually pretty substantial, so the company has a financial incentive to settle cheap and quiet before a real claim gets opened. Once you file directly with their carrier, there's a paper trail, a claims number, and a lot more accountability. The "operations team" lady is not your friend here — she's doing damage control. Get the name of their insurance carrier (it should be on the police report or you can ask the DMV/FMCSA depending on your state) and open a third-party claim yourself.

  • 16
    steady-mole-395

    Almost the exact same thing happened to me — delivery truck, parking lot, the company tried the informal cash route. I made the mistake of waiting too long to push back and it dragged on forever. Wish I'd just contacted their insurer immediately and let the adjusters handle it. Also: make sure you get a frame inspection, not just a visual estimate. My damage looked cosmetic and ended up being way more serious underneath.

  • 16
    silent-crane-217

    Were you in the car when it happened, or is this purely property damage? Even if you weren't inside, if there's any chance you were jolted or you moved the car afterward and felt any soreness, it might be worth a quick check-in with your doctor just to document it. I know it sounds overly cautious but you'd be surprised how symptoms from indirect impacts can show up days later.

    • 2
      careful-parent730

      Seconding this. The same approach worked for me last year.

  • 14
    cool-hare-155

    Not legal advice, but situations involving commercial vehicles and a documented hit-and-run caught on camera are exactly the kind of thing PI attorneys take seriously. Most offer free consultations. The fact that the driver may have hit a second vehicle actually strengthens the narrative around negligence. Worth at least one conversation before you accept anything or sign anything — and definitely before you sign anything, even informally.

    • 6
      grounded-co-pilot556

      Adding this: keep copies of every email. It mattered for me.

  • 9
    quick-mole-950

    Stop talking to the "operations" person entirely. That's not who handles claims — that's who handles making problems go away cheaply. File directly with their commercial insurer, get both your estimates submitted in writing, and if they lowball you, get a PI attorney involved. You have cameras, a police report, and two shops backing up your damage claim. That's a strong position. Don't negotiate it away out of convenience.

    • 1
      weary-passenger155

      That lines up with what my adjuster told me too.

  • 16
    mellow-grouse-014

    Honestly, as frustrating as this is, you're actually in a better spot than a lot of people who come here. You have footage, a report, and you didn't take the first offer. A lot of people get flustered and accept whatever's thrown at them in the moment. You've already done the hard part — now it's just about following through.