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Both insurers saying their own driver isn't at fault — does a police report even matter now?

So I got rear-ended at an intersection about two weeks ago and it has turned into a complete he-said/she-said nightmare. The other driver is claiming I reversed into him, which is honestly insane — I was stopped at a red light. Neither of us had a dash cam (lesson learned, believe me).

My insurance did their investigation and says I'm not at fault. Shocker — his insurance did the same thing and says he's not at fault. So now we're just... stuck? Both companies seem content to just let it sit in limbo.

Here's my question: there was no officer at the scene because the damage looked minor at the time and we exchanged info and left. I've since found out I can still file a report with the county sheriff's office. My cousin is pushing me hard to go do it ASAP and says it could totally shift things.

But would a report filed two weeks after the fact actually carry any weight? Like will the sheriff even take it seriously? And would the other insurance company care, or would they just dismiss it since it wasn't filed on the day of the crash?

I also want to mention — I've been having neck stiffness and some headaches that started a few days after. So this isn't just a fender-bender situation for me anymore. Starting to think I should talk to someone beyond just the insurance people.

Any experience with this kind of deadlock? Really appreciate any insight.

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  • 22
    cool-dove-969

    I went through almost the exact same thing last year — no police report, both insurers pointing fingers at each other. I filed a late report with my local PD about a week after and honestly it did help move things along. The responding officer noted the road conditions and took my statement, and once the other insurance saw an official document with details they didn't have, they softened up a little. Definitely go file it, even now.

    • 2
      steady-neighbor670

      Seconding this. The same approach worked for me last year.

  • 17
    humble-otter-715

    Former claims adjuster here. A late-filed report is better than no report, but I won't sugarcoat it — adjusters do flag reports filed days or weeks after the fact and sometimes discount them. That said, what really matters is what's in the report. If the officer documents your account, any visible road markings, skid patterns, vehicle positions — that's useful. What a report does do is create an official third-party record that forces the other carrier to formally respond to something, rather than just stonewalling. Go file it, but don't expect it to be a magic bullet.

    • 8
      soft-spoken-late-shift107

      Exactly my experience. Persistence paid off in the end.

    • 5
      patient-passenger268

      That lines up with what my adjuster told me too.

  • 10
    hearty-wolf-507

    Don't trust either insurance company to sort this out in your favor — including your own. Their job is to minimize payouts. The other carrier is absolutely counting on you getting frustrated and dropping it. File that report, document everything, and don't give any recorded statements to the other driver's insurer without knowing your rights first.

    • 8
      patient-parent916

      Going through something similar right now. Did following up actually move the needle for you?

  • 10
    genuine-marten-365

    A few things worth knowing: in most states you have a window (sometimes 10 days, sometimes longer) to file a collision report yourself even without police presence at the scene. Check your state DMV website — there's usually a self-reporting form. That document goes into the official record and can be requested during any dispute or litigation. Also, the neck stiffness you mentioned — please get that checked out medically and make sure everything is documented in writing. Symptoms showing up days after impact is super common with soft tissue injuries, and that medical paper trail matters a lot if this escalates.

  • 7
    quiet-crane-336

    Please don't brush off the neck stiffness and headaches. Delayed onset after a crash is really common — adrenaline masks a lot in the moment. Go get evaluated, mention the accident specifically, and get it in your chart today. If you wait too long and then try to connect it to the crash later, it becomes much harder to establish. Your health comes first, and the documentation helps you too.

    • 2
      hopeful-driver212

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

  • 16
    candid-tern-109

    Not legal advice, but when two carriers reach opposing liability determinations, the case often ends up in inter-company arbitration or heads toward litigation. A police report — even a late one — is a piece of evidence, but so are things like cell phone records, traffic camera footage, witness statements, and photos of final vehicle positions. If you're now dealing with physical symptoms, this situation has likely grown beyond a property dispute. Talking to a personal injury attorney for a free consult would give you a clearer picture of your options. Most won't charge you just to hear the facts.

    • 6
      careful-passenger241

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

  • 12
    plain-owl-318

    Go file the report today, not tomorrow. Stop waiting. And while you're at it, write down every single detail you remember about the crash right now — time, weather, exactly where your car was, what you saw — because memories fade fast and you want your account consistent. Two weeks is already pushing it.

    • 8
      weary-parent460

      Really glad you posted an update — gives the rest of us some hope.

    • 5
      restless-overpass160

      This thread is gold. Thanks everyone.

  • 13
    sharp-owl-198

    I don't want to be harsh but I have a genuine question — are there any witnesses at all? Anyone nearby, a business with cameras, anything? Because without that, even a late police report is just your word vs. his in a different format. What does the damage pattern on your car actually look like? That physical evidence might tell a clearer story than any report.