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Body shop warned me about the other driver's insurance — should I be worried?

So I got rear-ended at a red light about a week ago. Other driver was 100% at fault — there were two witnesses and the police report reflects it. My car has pretty solid damage across the back end, and the body shop I took it to gave me an estimate in the range of a few thousand dollars to get it back to where it was. Nothing crazy, but not cheap either.

Here's where it gets weird. When I gave the estimator the other driver's insurance info, he kind of paused and made a face. He told me he'd dealt with that company before and that they are notoriously slow — like, months slow. He said he had another customer's car sitting in his lot right now in basically the same situation and that customer has been without their vehicle for going on three months with no resolution in sight.

Then I looked the insurance company up and honestly couldn't find much about them at all. Almost like they just appeared out of nowhere. The other driver apparently only got this policy very recently, which the estimator said can sometimes make things even messier because the insurer might try to verify everything about the policy before they pay out a dime.

I depend on my car for work. I can't be without it for months. I have my own insurance but I don't want to burn my deductible and wait for reimbursement if I don't have to.

Has anyone dealt with a small or shady-seeming insurance company on the other driver's side? Did it actually drag out that long? What did you do — go through your own insurer, get a lawyer involved, something else? I feel like I'm already getting screwed and nothing has even really started yet.

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  • 14
    spry-beaver-605

    Ugh, I went through almost exactly this. The at-fault driver had some tiny regional carrier I'd never heard of, and they stalled for so long that I eventually just filed through my own insurance and let them deal with the subrogation mess. It was frustrating to pay my deductible upfront but I got my car back in like two weeks instead of sitting around waiting. Got the deductible back eventually too.

  • 19
    careful-marmot-659

    Small or obscure insurers can be way worse than the big names when it comes to dragging their feet — and they know most people don't know their rights well enough to push back. They'll request the same documents twice, 'lose' things, or just go quiet and wait to see if you get frustrated enough to accept less. Don't give them that opening. Document every call with dates, times, and what was said. Emails over phone calls whenever possible so you have a paper trail.

  • 13
    steady-raven-007

    Worked in claims for years. When a policy is super new, carriers sometimes put a hold on paying anything while they investigate whether the policy was even valid at the time of the loss — like, were premiums actually received, was coverage active, that kind of thing. It's not always bad faith, sometimes it's just process, but it can absolutely take weeks just to clear that hurdle before they even touch your damage claim. If you need your car for work, I'd honestly go through your own carrier now and let them fight it out on the backend.

  • 22
    spry-raven-621

    A couple of things worth knowing: most states have regulations about how quickly an insurer has to acknowledge a claim and how long they have to accept or deny it. If this company blows past those windows, that can actually work in your favor — it may constitute bad faith, which opens up other options. Look up your state's department of insurance website; you can usually find the specific timeframes there. Filing a complaint with the DOI costs you nothing and sometimes lights a fire under slow adjusters.

    • 18
      bold-dove-839

      Are you doing okay physically? Sometimes rear-end hits feel fine in the moment and then neck and back stuff creeps up over the next few days. Please get checked out if anything feels off — don't wait until it becomes a bigger problem. And if you do go to a doctor, make sure they document the accident as the cause. That matters later.

    • 11
      steady-heron-419

      That body shop guy warning you like that is honestly such a red flag. The fact that he's seen it happen to someone else already and that person is still waiting... I'd trust his read on this. So sorry you're dealing with it, especially when you literally did nothing wrong.

    • 7
      quiet-parent315

      Seconding this. The same approach worked for me last year.

  • 18
    quiet-kestrel-772

    Not legal advice, but if the liability is as clear as you're describing and the other carrier is stalling without good reason, that's worth a conversation with a PI attorney sooner rather than later. A lot of them will do a free consult. Sometimes a letter from an attorney moves things along faster than months of you calling and getting nowhere. Just something to keep in your back pocket.

    • 6
      careful-dreamer971

      Did you have to escalate, or did they come around after the first ask?

  • 10
    silent-elk-669

    Use your own insurance, get your car fixed, get back to work. Yes it's annoying to pay your deductible. But you need your car now, not in three months. Your insurer will go after theirs for reimbursement — that's literally what subrogation is for. Stop waiting on a company that has every incentive to stall.

    • 8
      gentle-driver503

      Thanks for sharing. Hope things are getting a little easier for you.